But why do women fall into this trap in the first place?
And admit it, you’d love a man who’s a mess, if he likes you. But when he looks towards you for emotional support and love, the same things his own wife, apparently, doesn’t provide him, you end up falling in love, more with his emotional affairs rather than anything else.
Accept that there’s no pattern and then deal with your present. You are not judging yourself nearly as harshly as we will.
You’ve extracted yourself from undesirable situations before.
You went into your second relationship hoping for marriage.
You weren’t looking for “terminal.” Your love life was very acceptable up until this point. I stopped with your question about how you got to the point of dating a married man.